“I’ll be so annoyed if our speaker talks about ‘voice,’” said a writer-friend. Sort of amazed me. At the same time, I can understand how frustrating hearing about voice can be. It’s like saying a romantic interest has that certain je ne sais quoi. Turn on a radio. If you’re lucky, the dj will be playing a rockin’ tune by an amazing artist. If you’ve … Continue reading On Voice
Writing for me boils down to one thing: passion, the drive to tell my stories. To stay authentic, to keep being myself, that passion has to drive all my writing decisions. With my boys gone, I left the day job to write full time. I took on a few more freelance clients to pay the bills, but mostly I’m savoring every moment of living in … Continue reading A Passion for Story
I wore orange yesterday to raise awareness about violence against women. The UN’s idea was that we would go out in force and people would ask why everyone wore orange. One problem: in my Oklahoma city, nobody else knew about the campaign. Yet violence against women around the world is pandemic. It’s something I address in my books and I want to share a few … Continue reading The Day After Yesterday
Heading into the holiday, most of us will be surrounded by family, some like me will not, but either way, we might need a break–and might not be able to leave the festivities for a gallery. I was penning an article that got me thinking about place, about family and finally about self-determination. How much of who we are is tied up in heritage or community? … Continue reading Art Crawl: Get me through this week!
Summer’s end. It’s a fitting time to talk about one of the most daunting challenges facing acoustic neuroma and other brain surgery patients: the pressure on family. In my experience, entire lifetimes are measured by “before the surgery” or “”after.” Everything changes: 1) Money gets scarce when the family budget meets a nonworking spouse and large medical bills. 2) The brain patient grows impatient. After … Continue reading Brain Surgery, meet Love